Soft reminder,
Don’t be too hurry in love, find a companion who can guide you not only in Dunya, but in akhirah. Who can pick you up when you fall, who can remind you when you forget, love you with all his/her might, someone that will hold your hands through thick and thin & lead you to the Jannah.
Must have realize that there have Difference in Love and Marriage"...
A student asks a teacher, "What is love?"
The teacher said, "in order to answer your question, go to the wheat field and choose the biggest wheat and come back.
But the rule is: you can go through them only once and cannot turn back to pick."
The student went to the field, go thru first row, he saw one big wheat, but he wonders... may be there is a bigger one later.
Then he saw another bigger one... But may be there is an even bigger one waiting for him.
Later, when he finished more than half of the wheat field, he start to realize that the wheat is not as big as. the previous one he saw, he know he has missed the biggest one, and he regretted.
So, he ended up went back to the teacher with empty hand.
The teacher told him, "This is love... You keep looking for a better one, but when later you realise, you have already miss the person..."
"What is marriage then?" the student asked.
The teacher said, "in order to answer your question, go to the corn field and choose the biggest corn and come back. But the rule is: you can go through them only once and cannot turn back to pick."
The student went to the corn field, this time he is careful not to repeat the previous mistake, when he reach the middle of the field, he has picked one medium corn that he feel satisfy, and come back to the teacher.
The teacher told him, "This time you bring back a corn. You look for one that is just nice, and you have faith and believe this is the best one you get... This is marriage."
Ketahuilah,bila tiba masanya kita akan jumpa siapa yang selayaknya buat kita.Antara cepat atau lambat itu semua urusan Allah.Dialah sebaik-baik perancang.Sentiasalah bersangka baik pada-Nya.Jadikan kisah cinta lalu yang mengecewakan sebagai satu proses untuk mematangkan diri & muhasabah diri.Percayalah,ada yang terbaik telah Allah simpan untuk kita sebagai muslimah yang percaya akan setiap perancanganNya.Mungkin pada pandangan mata kasar kita,kita melihat perpisahan itu sesuatu yang mengecewakan & menyedihkan,tetapi percayalah wahai hati,Sesungguhnya Allah mahu menjaga kita kaum muslimah serta memberikan kita yang lebih baik.^^.Kalau benar-benar menginginkan seseorang itu,biarkanlah dia.Lepaskan dia ikut sahaja aliran Allah.Kalau benar-benar lelaki itu untukmu,lelaki yang tercatat untukmu di Lut Mahfuz,percayalah,sejauh mana terpisah pasti bertemu kembali.Serahkan soal jodohmu pada Dia Yang Maha Kuasa Lagi Maha Mengetahui.
